The skill will come. It most certainly will.
It's not something that you can go out and 100% obtain. If that were the case, everyone would be amazing. I think skill is two things:
1. Being receptive enough to obtain it
2. Being dedicated enough to let it sink it
It's there, all around you. You just have to be open and give it time.
Just show up, go there and have fun. You feel better after it anyway!
It's just like they said. All you have to do is show up.
